Last night in New York
Scene through a mirror at Brooke Duchin's home. 7:25 PM. Photo: JH.
Brooke Hayward Duchin held another one of her intime fundraisers for her favorite music-maker (outside of her husband Peter Duchin who was down in Argentina fishing – really) – the Gotham Chamber Opera Company (“where opera gets intimate”) at the Duchins’ quite (very) eclectic loft which is located not quite downtown, (Brooke can sit in her bath and gaze up at the Empire State Building), but far enough from the UES that the smart set attending have to come by limousine or cab (I took the subway).

Anthony Paige and Brooke Hayward Duchin
These are swell little parties – forty or fifty opera lovers mostly. Neal Goren, the musical director of the Gotham Chamber Opera introduces the singers and tells the assembled a little something about the operas they have planned for the next season. Chamber Operas if you didn’t know (and I didn’t) are smaller operas that can be done on not quite a shoe-string but far far from a Franco Zefferelli budget.

Perfect little sandwiches (ham&cheese, tomato&something, chopped watercress&cucumber, smoked salmon on dark bread), cups of butternut squash soup and devilled eggs and drinks.

So the guests stand around and gnosh (daintily or genteely of course) and sip and chat and about seven-fifteen Mr. Goren announces the next opera and a couple of performers come out and with Mr. Goren’s piano accompaniment, they perform a segment of the upcoming opera. It’s the perfect kind of cocktail party for opera lovers. And then afterwards, as everyone is leaving, someone hands out an envelope to take home and fill with a check if you wish. If you don’t wish, no one will know. If you do, the GCO will not only know but flourish. People give $10 to $10,000 and it all goes to a very good cause, obviously. Brooke and Peter Duchin stage about three or four of these and they’re a big hit – the food, the crowd, the music and performances and the theatre that the D’s call home.

JH and the Digital was there, as you can see. I saw Liz Fondaras, Boaz Mazor, Bill Rondina, Lew Miano, Mark Newhouse, Erik Boman and Peter Schlesinger, Peter Vaughan, Edmee Firth, Alex Hitz, Jamie Figg, Gene Young, Tiziana and Hugh Hardy, Judy Auchincloss, Johnny Moore, Karen Lerner (who is president of the GCO board), Grace Kennan Warnecke, Julian Pfeiffer, Elaine Ng (the company’s managing director), Ellen and Jim Marcus, Wendy Vanderbilt, Anthony Paige who is currently enjoying at hit on Broadway with the revival of “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?”
Lew Miano, Peter Schlesinger, and Eric Bowman
Lew Miano, Bill Rondina, and Peter Rogers
Gene Young with her sister
Ellen Marcus, Jay Cantor, and Rosetta Miller
Mark Newhouse and James Marcus
Wendy Lehman, Neal Goren, and Elizabeth Fondaras

DPC and Boaz Mazor
Abby Field, Olivia Pirovano, and Elaine Ng
Amanda Forsythe, Vale Rideout, and Karen Lerner

Edmee Firth

And One More Thing … A Mother’s Advice On Life, Love, and Lipstick. Click cover to order.
John and Caitlin Tashjiian, Joan's daughter to whom the book was written.
From the Gotham Chamber Opera party it was up to the Fifth Avenue apartment of Leena and Gil Kaplan for the book party hosted by Mrs. Kaplan, Suzanne Maas, Kathleen Gerard, Leila Straus and Kevin Abernathy for Joan Jakobson who has just published And One More Thing … A Mother’s Advice On Life, Love, and Lipstick, with an introduction by Wendy Wasserstein. The Kaplans’ enormous living room with its western views of the Reservoir, Central Park West and the sunset, was packed with friends of the author and her husband John Jakobson. The Jakobsons have so many friends that if they could get everyone to buy a book, Joan would have a bestseller hands-down.

The book is dedicated to Joan’s mother, Jane Welt, “who informed me when I was seventeen that if I insisted on staying out past my curfew, I would be considered a Glad Girl. Years later, when I asked her exactly what a “Glad Girl” was, she said she had no idea and made it up on the spot. She taught me that when you are the mother of a daughter, you use whatever works.”

Joan of course has a daughter – Caitlin, who is pictured here with her husband John Tashjian – who is the ostensible reason for the book (the real reason is Joan likes to write, likes to give advice and can’t resist the possibility of a good laugh). In the intro, she writes:

Despite the fact that, according to some, I look like a middle-aged woman from the suburbs who drives a minivan, my life did not always proceed on a proper course. After Caitlin’s father and I divorced when she was five years old, I fell in love with a married man and had a baby boy with him before his divorce was final. During this time, I had the deeply dubious distinction of being the first unwed, pregnant class mother in the history of my daughter’s very traditional school. However, because I wrote my thank-you notes promptly and never wore a T-shirt that said “Beer Is Food” to the Middle School Parents’ Night Dinner, everyone survived. (Except my father.)
Anna Quindlen and Joan Jakobson
Paige Peterson, Liz Robbins, Joan Jakobson, and Susan Patricoff
Barbara Uzielli with Chris and Grace Meigher
Lisa Bernbach, Sarah Rosenthal, and Tracey Zabar
Looking west across the Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis reservoir towards the El Dorado towers from the windows of the Kaplan apartment
From the Jakobson party, it was down to the Calvin Klein store for another book party, of quite a different flavor. Perfect for the Digital (I brought mine). Bryan Adams began photographing a cross section of influential American women dressed in Calvin Klein back in November 2003. The result turned out to be a tribute to the beauty, strength and character of these actors, journalists, musicians, artists, businesswomen, athletes, philanthropists and socialites. A lot of Mr. Adams’ subjects were there last night. Profits from the sale of the signed books and photographs will benefit breast cancer research programs at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center through the Society of Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center.

Click cover to order
In the crowd: Christina Applegate, Katie Holmes, Katie Couric, Paula Zahn, Dr. Sherrell and Muffie Potter Aston, Gilles and Kelly Bensimon, Samnatha Boardman, Tory and Chris Burch, Jennifer and Larry Creel, Jamie Creel, Patrick and Mia Demarchelier, Ahn Duong, Somers White, Thom Filicia, Chris and Grace Meigher, Sharon King Hoge (who was catching an eleven-thirty plane for Taiwan), Nina Griscom and Leonel Piraino, Helen Lee Schifter, Ingrid Sischy, George Farias, Andrew Saffir, Jeff and Justine Koons, Evelyn and Leonard Lauder, Sally and Rufus Albemarle, Blair Hussain, Anne and Amanda Hearst, Jane Rosenthal, Carol McFadden, Jamee and Peter Gregory, and on and on, and on.

There were 500 acceptances to this party and when I arrived about 8:15, it was mob scene. So I wandered through quickly with the Digital, as you can see.
Helen Lee Schifter and R. Couri Hay
Mallory Kean

Fiona Thomas and Hud Morgan
Amanda Hearst

Erin Leopold
Tory Burch

A portrait of Tory Burch by Bryan Adams
Renee Rockefeller and Sally Albemarle
Rose Hartman

Nan Kempner
Muffie Potter Aston and Anne Hearst
Muffie Potter Aston by Bryan Adams

Jennifer Creel by Bryan Adams
Anh Duong
Alexis Bryan and Alia Ahmed-Yahia

Chris Spitzmiller and Melanie Seymour
From there it was up to Swifty’s where I thought I’d catch a bite, solo, as it were, before hitting the keyboard. Forget it; another mob scene. Lee Thaw was giving a big dinner in the backroom: Pat Buckley, Victor Shafferman, Kathleen Hearst, Daisy and Paul Soros, Larry Lovett and his sister-in-law Mrs. Lovett (Larry’s sister-in-law), John Loring, Sam and Judy Peabody, Ezra Zilkha, Aileen Mehle, Nan and Tommy Kempner, Doda Voridis, Kenny Lane, the Honorable Harry Fane, Bettina Zilkha, Pierre Durand, Kartika Soekarno, Victor Barcimanto, Pat Patterson and George McNeely. Meanwhile at separate tables: Cece and Lee Black were entertaining, as well as Geoffrey Bradfield with Lord and Lady Guthrie; Kristi Whitker and Dick Coons with Bill and Kitty McKnight, the Meighers with Wendy Vanderbilt and Jamie Figg, Jim Kaufman with Louise Noyes, Couri Hay with Anne Hearst and George Farias. Also Stephanie Krieger, Jo Hallingby, Roy and Mallory Kean, Bob Colacello.

A beautiful night in New York ...



April 14, 2005, Volume V, Number 64
Photographs by Jeff Hirsch & DPC/NYSD.com

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