By Ki Hackney
Valentine’s Day celebrates gestures of love and affection as much as it does romance.
The history of this annual event revolves around several legends, including an ancient pagan purification and fertility festival called the Feast of Lupercalia, which, in about 498, A.D., Pope Gelasius declared officially as February 14. But Valentine’s Day speaks primarily, to the legend of a Roman named Valentine, the third-century A.D. priest who secretly married young men and women when Emperor Claudius II outlawed marriage. The emperor felt that young men did not join the armies he needed so badly at the time, because they did not want to leave their wives and families. Valentine disagreed. For his compassion, Valentine was eventually imprisoned and beheaded.
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Valentino’s fuchsia rosette covered tote is one way to say ‘I love You’; $1,950 at Bergdorf Goodman, 754 Fifth Avenue, 212-872-8845, bergdorfgoodman.com [1]. |
During his confinement, it is said that Valentine fell in love with the jailer’s daughter. Before his death, the priest apparently wrote a farewell love letter to his sweetheart , which he signed ‘From your Valentine’ — a sentiment that became quite popular and continues today.
The oldest known Valentine is from Charles, Duke d’Orleans. While imprisoned in the tower of London, the Duke wrote a note to his wife that later inspired one sent from King Henry V to Catherine of Valois. By the mid-eighteenth century, men and women would commonly exchange tokens of affection and letters, and printed cards became available in the mid-eighteenth century. Today, more than a billion Valentine’s Day cards are sent each year in the U.S.
We also exchange about 180 million roses on this sentimental day. Why flowers? Perhaps we can trace them back to Father Valentine, as well. It is said that some of the young couples whom Father Valentine married in secret would visit him in jail, bringing with them notes of gratitude and flowers ... which leads me to our story.
For Valentine’s Day this year, we decided to skip chocolates and to look at different ways to send flowers. It started when I walked into Bergdorf Goodman one day and right in front of me was this pink rose-covered handbag by Valentino. What an inspiration and a reminder how much beauty and softness flowers bring into our lives. Next, heading up Madison Avenue toward home, I spotted the real thing – rows of traditional red (and pink) roses at Dean & DeLuca and Bardin Palomo offered a magnificent floral arrangement with poppies, roses and fiddlehead fern fronds from his shop in the St. Regis Hotel.
Then, in a flight of fancy, we started to explore our floral options and came up with everything from the most delicate, vintage, flower-enameled heart charm to beach bags; swimsuits; and flower-sprinkled dresses from Marc Jacobs, Roberto Cavalli, and Carolina Herrera; and knock-your-socks-off gems from Graff and Van Cleef & Arpels; plus, of course, one or two Valentines from Victoria’s Secret. There is nothing quite like a beautiful flower. |